I am a hopeless romantic person. I do believe in fairy tales where the prince will live happily ever after with his princess. I believe in God’s timing in finding the one destined for us. The one who will journey with us for the rest of our life.
For almost 3 years, I am praying for a lady that I want to be with and get married to. I prepared myself to be the best man for her. I undergo all the process just to be purified and be sure of what I am feeling. The journey is a roller coaster ride, it is a mixture of joy and sadness, of closeness and awkwardness.
But I never imagine myself that I will be put in a situation where everything that I’ve prayed for will not be answered the way I wanted. God told me that “She’s not the One” and it breaks me into pieces. How come that God will not grant something I desired for a long time already. There’s a feeling inside of me that I’ve just waited in vain. That everything was put into waste. Despite of this heartbreak, God opened me into His grace again, to understand what I cant comprehend, to feel the comfort in His great plans for me.
God revealed to me that everything I am experiencing is His redirection to me. The journey teach me to become a better man and to handle things not just based on emotion but on God’s willing. It allows me to be patient in unfolding His plans for me. I realized also that in pursuing a relationship, we must improve ourselves to be a better person for him/her but not to the point you are losing your identity. When we fall in love with someone, we must also accept his/her flaws. Our relationship must not focused on our ideal standards rather on how you can grow together.
At the end of the day, I know that I am at peace in putting a period to our almost love story. I have to let you go even if you are not mine at the first place. I have to move on if there’s no us. I have to give an ending to the story that was never started. I have to accept that you are not the Princess in the fairy tale that God has written for me.
I don’t care if I have to start all over again in finding and praying for the princess that God has prepared for me. I would always take the risk just to have a happily ever after with the lady that I am destined to.